Crazy Jump Off's

Could anyone please tell me why these crazy Jump Off/Side-Kicks what ever you want to call them get into a relationship or even sex relationship with a married man  Famous person for that matter.Look at Tiger Woods now Sandra and her husband these women know right from jump what they're getting into.I'm not taking up for the men here because they to know right from wrong I blame them as much as the women they encounter. I guess you can say I use to be a side kick/ jump off but I knew how far to go and how far not to go What I mean by that is I didn't take our so called relationship to serious meaning I knew that the man I was dealing with may have had other women just as myself At that time it didn't matter because I wasn't trying to end his career.Am 26yrs old now, at the time I was 22 I had got into a relationship with a well-know football player not sure if he was married with a family or not there was no ring(but we all know a ring can be removed at any giving time) I'm not going to reveal his name because even though we are not together we have a very close friendship At the time I had no idea he was a ball player I met him here in my hometown "Cleveland" at a local downtown night club When he approached me his name didn't mean anything to me I just thought he was just like any other guy in the club picking up random girls.He didn't take notice at first to me not knowing whom he was until one day he had a away game told me to watch the game for him and to make sure I record it for him that's when I noticed him running across the field.During our 2yr relationship never did I ask ? for anything I was so use to the fact that there was no silver spoon in my mouth use to the fact that I had worked hard to get the things that I wanted When I looked at him I didn't see dollar signs nor did I see what I can gain from this relationship.I saw a warm kind hearted person the fame the money all that wasn't what I was about that was his time not mine. As a girlfriend,sidekick or jump-off what ever you want to call me I knew when to step back and let him shine I knew when to step up and do my part. "Part 2" coming soon to a blog site nearest you March 26 2010